Women dating shorter guys

23 Oct

I was sitting in a Spanish restaurant in Alphabet City with my little sister.She was in town for the weekend from Boston, and I was treating her to shrimp stew, churros and the tales of my not-so-glamorous life in NYC.So next time you meet a beautiful women who just happens to be taller than you, just follow these 3 simple steps for success: everyone is gawking at it… And the only way they would notice is if you mention it. It sounds obvious, but it really works…because at the end of the day, that’s what she is: A woman.So if you don’t mention your height difference…chances are she won’t mention it either. Taller women are uncomfortable (even if you’re really into her).I just mean these ladies were normal, pretty women, and their partners were so very on the opposite side of the spectrum.I pointed out this realization to my sister and asked if she was as unsurprised by it as I was.[Read: How to deal with insecurity in a relationship] That’s the strange power of insecurity and insecure men in a relationship.Experiences with insecure men The first time I ever dated an insecure guy was almost a decade ago.

I also noticed their husbands were all shorter than they were; I wondered if it was because of the heels.

He's just so busy in his personal and professional life, but has all the time in the world to text you.

No f*cks are given in progressing with some kind of physical connection on his end.

On top of that, if you do mention it, she might assume you’re insecure or uncomfortable with your body. But if you ignore the difference, she’ll think you’re a confident guy who’s secure in himself…and she’ll appreciate that you don’t need her “approval.” Here’s the truth: Taller women have eyes. To a woman, this screams “desperate.” If you feel the need to “prove” yourself to her because of your height, she’ll notice. So here’s a pro tip: Take her to a venue where the height difference is barely noticeable. If you’re standing next to each other and staring at a stage, she’ll be too distracted by the music to notice your height. When I was dating this shorter guy, there really WAS something different about him…

If there’s a height difference, she’ll eventually notice… That way, there won’t even be an opportunity to talk about it! It was like he could read my mind from the moment we met — like he (maybe that’s why I slept with him on our first date)…