Tips for women dating short men

17 Aug

Why Some Younger Women Like Older Men Younger women often enjoy the company of older man for a variety of reasons.

A very common reason that many women turn to older men is that these men are more mature than the men their own age.

What’s more, the best-case scenario of asking a guy out, him saying yes and setting up an actual date simply leads to more apprehension as you worry about screwing up a potentially powerful and positive connection.

Of course, all of this doesn’t even begin to take into account the additional level of apprehension many gay guys feel when it comes to approaching other men due to the uncertainty of parsing out a stranger’s orientation. Even though you have a whole lot of anxiety to deal with, you have to just get over it if you ever want to go on dates, get laid and find yourself the boyfriend you’ve always wanted.

Not being as drive by testosterone often makes older men better in bed than younger men, according to some women.

Older men often view pleasure in a different light than younger men and are more concerned with the woman’s pleasure as opposed to their own. Older men tend to be more steadfast and stable and are generally more established and settled in their chosen careers than are younger men.

In the meantime, it still sucks to be on the receiving end.

“Why is it that a guy fiercely pursues a woman at first, and then when he finds out she is actually interested he is not so sure if he is interested anymore? For background, I’m 29, live in Australia, and I’ve been on 5 dates with this guy so far but we haven’t kissed yet.” — Sheila Well well.

And then his interest wanes and he starts treating her like an option instead of a priority? An excellent question that has been posed by women since time immemorial.

[Read: How to deal with insecurity in a relationship] That’s the strange power of insecurity and insecure men in a relationship.

Experiences with insecure men The first time I ever dated an insecure guy was almost a decade ago.