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Love blinds common sense.” “No Nigerian, Ghanaian or Jamaican man is welcome in my house. Why is it better for me to be with a white man than it is to be with a Nigerian? How many marriages do you know of people from two different African countries that have lasted till old age? I pondered those phrases: “It’s for your own good” and “stick to your own”.

Stop wasting your time; you’ll regret it when you get older. It’s for your own good”, said her mother, adamantly.

As one uncle put it to me [I’m Congolese], “If you married a Nigerian, how would you cope if he wanted to retire in Nigeria? Could we really say that relationships would be easier if we were with someone of the same origin?

If you’re going to marry a foreigner, marry a white man.” These were the words that fell from my friend’s mother’s mouth when her daughter told her she was dating a Nigerian man because she was tired of Congolese men. ”, said my friend in response, defiantly challenging her mother, to my dismay (anybody knows better than to challenge an African mother! White people “White people don’t have much culture; it’s easy to adapt either way. Was it really for our own good to find our life partners within our own culture?

Cry along or hold her hands like a man and tell her all will be well?

But we’ll come back to my situation in a minute—let’s first get oriented on Nigeria.

Girls in Nigeria want to date and marry a tough man, not some wimp who thinks he could buy women with money. Not really money or material things, the fact that you know what you are doing could give you more girls than splashing money around.

Well, they may help you spend your money and get you ditched. If you really want to date pretty hot girls from Nigeria, you need to take responsibility or what else do you think a man does? There is a kind of attitude that gets you women before you even ask, it's the tough and confidence-filled kind ofattitude when you walk up to a girl in Nigeria and forget what to say; you just killed your manly ego, OK, this happens occasionally but your ability to keep trying to stand up to women and say the right things is what makes you a real man.

Not every Jamaican man is a "hustler" or "rude boy".

Same token, not every Nigerian man is a "guy man" (con man). My dear,it depends on individual but i do know Nigerian men has those qualities u did mentioned,in de aspect of food, they eat eatable things like other Jamaican men,one other thing is dat Nigerian men takes bein ontop in their relationship serious 2 de core,de way God made it 2 be initially.