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Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / How Can You Tell A Guy He Is Way Too Nice And It Is Turning You Off? Even when you do something bad,he takes the blame,always lets you decide everything at the end, could compliment you 10 times in a day everyday, ready to overplease you at his own cost always etc P. Your best bet though would be to deliberately hurt him, to stoke some sort of fire in him (if he has any)and then maybe, bring out just a little of his dark side. Cosmass: There is a very sweet, nice guy you like which initially was good but as time went by, he is still very nice and when I mean nice, I mean "VERY".

(5158 Views) Seduction Or She's Just Being Too Nice? S I'm not saying it's bad but to some extent, he should also be able to stand for himself and sometimes please himself How can one change or tell him he is being way tooooo nice? Even when you do something bad,he takes the blame,always lets you decide everything at the end, could compliment you 10 times in a day everyday, ready to overplease you at his own cost always etc P.

He is 37, divorced with one teenage kid that he sees every other weekend. I can’t figure out if I’m attracted to him or the fact that he’s a good guy. Calls, writes me letters, texts, takes me out, does family outings, asks about my day, washes my car, is clean, is fit, responsible, understanding, compliments me, etc, etc. We don’t get too much opportunity to spend alone time so we’ve only slept with each other twice. He’s completely fallen for me, thinks I’m strong, independent, beautiful, good mom, etc. Then the dilemma becomes do I let this great guy go and regret it afterward? As I see it, you’re asking a few separate questions here. You may be confounding to men, but you’re definitely not crazy and definitely not wrong…. We can break it down to its elemental components, but that thing that you feel, which draws you to a man? No more than the base attraction a man has to a woman when he sees her across a crowded room.

Confucius says " nice guy or not, women will just not understand.

Its not about how nice the guy is but how they relate in the relationship"^^Bodykiss, ori e pe.

After all, we're all "told" that is how it is supposed to work. I did the "good" boyfriend and husband thing..it all fell apart.

Bring someone flowers or cook them dinner and they love you forever... I learned firsthand that such nice behavior didn't work. The first step to seeing this clearly is to temporarily put aside any frustration and bitterness.