Does online dating work for anyone

22 Oct

That has all disappeared and I am left with nothing except a nasty bar scene in which you have to wait 10 minutes to get in, then pay 5 dollars cover and you cannot even move or hear your self think because it is so packed... I am sick of being single and a loner I have never been this way before and I am now looking to try everything I can to put myself out there for someone... You really need to go to Youtube and watch the vid, "Dan Savage On Dating Afer High School."He talks a lot about gay stuff since he is gay but what he says really does apply to the heterosexual world just as much.Now to address your actual question, the truth is EVERYTHING WORKS.Online dating sites promise to use science to match you with the love of your life.

Both are happily (so they tell me) married with kids. We didnt fall head over heels for each other right off the bat. We just kept "dating" and as time went by it just made sense for me to move my stuff to her place. My best advice would be to put yourself out there and be a man whore for a little while. Yes Dan Savage is witty and tells funny tales but the message is spot-on. Do not pursue "a girl" or put all your time and efforts into trying to appeal to one girl.You can find the right person - as long as you are looking - somewhere. There will be countless women that aren't into you at all. That's for romance novels, chick flicks and soap operas.Good Luck TNT Man Not a fan of the gay universe but that was a pretty good link you posted oldshirt. Chics dig romance novels etc because they like the fantasy of someone pursuing them.Online dating sites help fill the gap that our busy lives have created in our search for connection.Online dating services are not only convenient, but they also have the apparent advantage of using systematic methods to match us with the partner of a lifetime.