Dating waste of money

28 Sep

I am not one of those guys, and my friend is not one of those guys.

He took her out three times, because he thought she was nice.

(I'm assuming you are a young man -- apologies if that's an incorrect assumption.) When I think of all the effort I put into dating when I was young -- dating men with whom I had no hope of a long-term or health relationship -- yep, that was a waste of time.

(Not that I dated abusive or bad guys, they just weren't a good match, and deep down I knew it.) I think the key word here is "chasing." If you mean pursuing women who are not interested in you, or who are shallow and who don’t appreciate good qualities in a man (compatibility, honesty, kindness, reliability, etc.) I’d say that’s clearly a waste of time.

I have spoken about not going through an endless dating game for singles but to practice “date after marriage.” That means, don’t waste your time to date for a long period of time, but to settle down with a partner that has the same marital goals as you.

And work hard to keep up the romance after marriage.

All the money and time spent on this potential marital partner is wasted because comes next Valentine’s Day or birthday or Christmas, this person will no longer be in your life.

I also termed this as “taking care of someone else’s wife.” Ladies have committed the same mistakes.

I set up my friend with my girlfriends friend, and she went on like 3 dates with him.

As you can imagine it get’s hard for men to hook up with women using Adult Dating Sites.

That being said I know that there are several LEGIT and RELIABLE sex dating sites which actually work.

The two services used by these individuals were OKCupid and Match.com, two of the largest and most popular dating websites on the Internet.

What I learned from carrying out an interview of a female and the interview of a male trying to dig into this intriguing subject was that using the Internet for dating is equally painful for men and for women, but for very different reasons.