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We do, however, sometimes need a bracing punch in the face about what, exactly, we want so badly when we go trolling for partners in smoky bars, at singles soccer league, online.

Don’t worry, Kipnis’ very entertaining look at all our dumb societal ideas about love will hardly turn you celibate, or even unromantic.

(Sample: "Decide how much anxiety a thing may be worth and refuse to give it more.") best-seller, written by corporate lawyer-turned-self-help guru Jonathan Fields, is basically the book version of one of those "No Fear" posters you had taped up in your locker in middle school: Using hard data as well as anecdotal evidence, Fields makes a convincing case for embracing the unknown rather than shying away from it.Set aside your annoyance with author Elizabeth Gilbert’s breakthrough, .(It’s not her fault the movie made it worse.) Here she merges the confessional memoir style that made her famous with the journalism that she practiced for years before that in an examination of what makes marriage marriage.Proponents of the methods offered in the book point to The Rules as having positive results for both men and women.They represent the point of view that men enjoy being the aggressor and are inspired to treat women better who choose behaviors which set up boundaries and slow down the courtship process.