Dating multiple partners

07 Sep

Read Sex at Dawn or The Ethical Slut for a full exploration of this topic. I am 25 and I’d be cheating myself if I let any one of them, no matter how awesome, stop me from exploring the rest.

For now, take it from me: 2014’s prejudice against open relationships is misguided. Now for the steps to managing dating multiple girlfriends! In a perfect world, what would your relationships with women look like? If I’m spending any amount of time with you it means I think you are an amazing person. Guys wind up in monogamous relationships they never intended to be in because things snowball out of control.

However, this is not something I have ever done before and I am having a hard time with the idea of juggling.Making a decision about a guy is no different than any other decision.You weigh your pros and cons, you do your cost-benefit analysis, you use a little logic and a little emotion, and then make a largely arbitrary choice without knowing if you’re right.I was never comfortable playing the field by dating two guys at a time—I felt sneaky and unethical.I didn’t know how to deal with two men texting and calling me or how to handle their sexual advances.